No, I’m not endorsing the latest Julia Roberts movie. I don’t even know the storyline and can’t recall hearing one review.
I’m simply stealing the title as I feel it is as good of a summary as any for the Cook family reunion.
We EAT. Boy do we eat. The weekend is kicked off with a breakfast at my parents’ house. You haven’t lived until you’ve tasted my dad’s tenderloin gravy. He’s not big on cooking for 4, but if you need a meal prepared for 84…he’s your guy. He and mom get help from Pam’s biscuits, Sharon’s casseroles, Shirley’s apples, Mary Ellen’s homemade donuts…all in all a fantastic meal. Seems enough to hold us over until dinner, right? Perhaps, but just to be safe, many of the ladies meet in town for a late lunch together. Dinner has transformed over the years from hot dogs over a fire, to a full blown meal. Dad cooks chili for an army in a huge pot. Everyone pitches in with meat for the grill, cookies, dips, chips, and we stuff ourselves once again. Sunday’s lunch is the big finale. It rivals any church pot luck I’ve ever seen. The list of delicious dishes is endless, but my favorites this year were Lora’s key lime cake, and a Mexican casserole whose preparer is yet unknown. As if that wasn’t enough, a few of the more local cousins remain in town for homemade ice cream and snacks on Sunday evening. So yes…we eat.
We PRAY. We pray before our meals. We pray for those who are traveling. We pray, giving thanks for the ancestors who have provided such strong examples of loving Christian families. Then on Sunday morning, we gather and pray at the gravesites of many of the parents, grandparents and great grandparents who helped make us who we are.
We LOVE. We love the new marriages and new babies. We love the young families, the new grandparents, and the elder generations who remind us all of our strong heritage. We love those who are “up” and we celebrate with them. But what I love about this family is we also love those who are down. We love those who are struggling. We love those who have gone on, and we love those aching families they have left behind. We love those who are hurting, those who are weak, and those who are in need. So we laugh, we cry, and we celebrate all of life’s ups and downs, because when all is said and done we know what matters most, so we love.
We SING. Literally, we just sing. Saturday’s breakfast is always followed up with a big box of hymnals being passed out. It doesn’t seem necessary because most of us know the words and the music by heart. We sing the same old songs that have brought joy and peace to our family for decades. You could call it a rehearsal I suppose, because the “main event” is when we cram 100+ people in to the tiny country church that raised our grandparents, and fill it with sounds of praise, worship and tradition until you’re sure the ceiling just might pop off. The ceiling never does pop off. But I’m pretty sure a few hearts are bursting with pride and joy. And I like to think that Papaw Cook and God are looking down together and agreeing that it sure sounds nice.
Are we a little corny? Absolutely. Do we have a few odd traditions that may be old fashioned? Sure. Will it be tough to keep up such traditions as the generations get further and further apart, both in miles and in relationships? I’m afraid so. But for now, we Eat, Pray, Love, and Sing, and we look forward to our next Glad Reunion Day.